Here’s a self-reflection checklist for women to assess if their actions are rooted in confidence, integrity, and faith, rather than manipulation or control—basically a guide to walk in healthy influence:

🌸 Confidence vs. Control: Self-Reflection Checklist

1. Motives

Do I act to build others up, or to get my way? Are my choices rooted in love, truth, and faith, or in fear, pride, or selfish gain?

2. Communication

Do I speak honestly, or do I twist words to influence outcomes? Am I open to feedback, or do I avoid accountability?

3. Boundaries

Do I respect other people’s boundaries, or do I push them for my benefit? Am I clear about my own limits and needs?

4. Relationships

Do I create harmony and support, or drama and division? Am I loyal and trustworthy, or do I manipulate situations to my advantage?

5. Influence & Leadership

Do I lead with humility and service, or with pride and control? Are my actions aligned with integrity, or do I use charm to get my way?

6. Self-Check

Do I regularly reflect on my choices and motives? Am I willing to admit mistakes and grow from them?

✅ Reflection Tip

After answering honestly, identify one small area to improve each week—maybe it’s speaking more truthfully, respecting someone’s boundaries, or letting go of control. Small steps build lasting integrity.

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